| How To Choose Your First Anal Sex Toy | Apr 28, 2008 |
Think over buying your first anal sex toy? Well, this is not an easy matter. The assortment offered at online and offline stores is great, but how to find the right anal sex toy, the one that will provide maximum pleasure for you?
Do not hurry. First of all take into account some things and answer some questions in order to find out what exactly type of anal sex toy you need.
When choosing your first anal sex toy you should take into account such important issues as your personal preferences (tastes differ, some like smooth penetration while others want something textured inside), the size, the material and your budget. So let's begin with your preferences.
Consider your preferences
Personal preferences is the main thing that will influence your choice.
Like the sensation of fullness in the anus? If you do, than you should purchase a smooth butt plug. A butt plug is an anal sex toy that is very similar to dildo but with some differences. First of all these are thinner than usual dildos, and secondly these have a flared base that prevents the sex toy from being lost in the rectum.
Butt plugs are available in a great variety of shapes, materials, colors and textures. Beginners are usually recommended to choose a thinner and a smooth butt plug without ribs, dots or studs.
Butt plugs can be used in a variety of ways. You can wear the sex toy during sex with a partner, solo play or even while walking.
After you have tried a smooth butt plug you can opt for something more serious, for instance a textured butt plug or a vibrating anal stimulator that is curved specifically for prostate stimulation.
A vibrating anal stimulator can be used as an anal masturbatoror you can use it as a way to relax your anal muscles before anal intercourse. Many anal vibrators are multi-speed and multi functional, they vibrate, rotate pulsate and do many other things. So intensive stimulation might seem unpleasant to you as you are not used to vibrations yet. This is why beginners are usually recommended to begin with smooth butt plugs.
You can also opt for smooth non-vibrating anal beads that look like two or more balls or beads connected with a thread. These sex toys are used to insert in the anus and then to pull the toy out at the moment of orgasm to enhance enjoyment.
Consider the size
Anal sex toy come in a variety of sizes. Certainly you should not opt for a thick one. Choose a slim anal sex toy and then when you get used to it, buy a thicker one. Step by step you will realize what size is the best for you, but we recommend that your first anal sex toy (a butt plug or anal stimulator) should be very slim.
The same can be said about anal beads. Your first anal beads should be the smallest ones.
Consider material
Anal sex toys come in a variety of materials. Some materials are flexible whereas others are not. Some materials have pores while others are nonporous. Non-porous materials are easier to clean than those non-porous. Find out what material the sex toy is made of and get to know more about advantages and disadvantages of this material and only then decide whether to purchase this sex toy or not.
Consider your budget
Material and special features influence the toy's cost greatly. Some materials, such as jelly or vinyl are less expensive while silicone is an expensive material. You should also take into account the fact that vibrating anal sex toys are more expensive than those that do not vibrate.
| Anal Sex Toys - Care and Cleaning | Apr 07, 2008 |
All kinds of sex toys, and anal sex toys in particular require proper care and cleaning as improper care and cleaning shortens lifespan of the sex toy or even damages it completely. The way you clean your anal sex toy mostly depends on the material the sex toy is made out of.
Acrylic (Lucite) anal sex toys
Acrylic is a light, hard, durable and easy to mold material that can be formed into any shape. Mostly this material is used for phallus-shaped sex toys, especially those curved ones (for instance, anal stimulators).
Acrylic anal sex toys must be washed with warm water and mild soap, or with a special sex toy cleaner.
Cannot be boiled and cleaned with alcohol.
Crystalessence anal sex toys
Crystalessence is a soft and flexible, yet firm, non-porous material. Due to great flexibility of the material, crystalessence sex toys easily bend to reach your hidden erogenous zones.
Wash crystalessence anal sex toys with warm water and mild soap, or with a special sex toy cleaner.
Cyberskin anal sex toys
Cyberskin is a mixture of silicone and PVC. This material perfectly mimics human skin. It looks and feels very realistic. Mostly this material is used for phallus-shaped sex toys.
This material is porous, so it is quite difficult to clean. Anal sex toys made of Cyberskin should be washed with warm water and soap or with a sex toy cleaner. Never clean Cyberskin sex toys with alcohol-containing solutions.
Glass anal sex toys
Glass is a beautifully looking, solid, non-porous and hygienically superior material. This material easily acquires the temperature you need. You can warm your glass sex toy or you can put it in a cold place to reach the effect you need.
Glass sex toys can be cleaned with warm water and soap and with a sex toy cleaner. These can be boiled and cleaned with alcohol-containing solution.
Jelly anal sex toys
This material is very flexible and soft, thus it provides very realistic feel. Jelly sex toys are very beautiful and colorful.
Since jelly is a porous material it is difficult to clean. Clean jelly anal sex toys with mild soap and warm water without boiling and alcohol containing disinfectants.
Latex anal sex toys
Latex is a flexible and moderately soft material. Latex anal sex toys look very life-like and combine hardness and softness.
Latex is a porous material. Clean latex sex toys with warm water and mild soap or with a sex toy cleaner. Never boil latex devices and never use alcohol-containing solutions on them.
Plastic anal sex toys
Plastic is a smooth, firm and non-porous material that provides feel of smoothness and sleekness.
Plastic anal sex toys can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial soap or with a special sex toy cleaner. Can be disinfected with an alcohol-containing solution. Not to boil!
PVC anal sex toys
PVC (polyvinyl chloride) is a light and water-resistant hard plastic with smooth and firm texture.
Clean with warm water and mild soap or with a sex toy cleaner. Not to boil and not to disinfect with alcohol.
Rubber anal sex toys
Rubber is a soft and flexible porous material. Anal sex toys made of this material come in a great variety of colors.
Recommended to clean with warm water and antibacterial soap. Not to boil and not to disinfect with alcohol.
Silicone anal sex toys
Silicone is realistic non-porous material. Sex toys made of silicone retain heat, so the user can warm the device up to the temperature needed. This can be done through putting the sex toy in water, but do make sure the device is waterproof!
Silicone anal sex toys are easy to clean. These can be cleaned with warm water and soap or with a sex toy cleaner. Can be boiled or disinfected with alcohol.
Vinyl
This is a soft and porous material that is usually preferred by those who like moderately soft materials and inexpensive sex toys.
Clean vinyl sex toys with warm water and mild soap or with sex toy cleaner. Do not boil and do not disinfect with alcohol-containing solutions.
Tips
1. Keep anal sex toys in a cool dry place each wrapped with soft cloth
2. Use a condom on the toy for better hygiene and easier cleaning
3. Remove the batteries from the sex toy before cleaning
4. Make sure the sex toy is completely dry before putting it away for storage.
| Anal Fisting | Feb 18, 2008 |
Anal fisting is sexual activity that involves inserting the hand and the forearm in the anus. Both men and women like this activity. Girls like feeling hot and wet fingers in their anus while men enjoy massage of the prostate that might be more enjoyable if performed with the entire hand, rather than with one or who fingers.
Those who never tried fisting might think that it is very painful. Yes it is, but only if performed improperly.
First of all you should be aware that fisting is a practice for connoisseurs rather than for beginners. Before fisting you should try some other kinds of anal stimulation and anal sex. For instance: playing with anal sex toys (butt plugs, anal stimulators, anal beads), fingering, anal intercourse or pegging.
If you consider yourself to be an experienced anal sex lover than do try fisting, this is a really exciting activity. Don't you know how to do that? Read the information below and follow it. Step by step you will learn how to fist and how to provide maximum pleasure to your partner
How to perform anal fisting
- Enema. The receiving partner should be given enema. The water should be warm, without any disinfectants. Some people like to add some amount of alcohol in the water. If you want to do so, than keep in mind that the concentration of alcohol should be very low.
- Turn on your partner. Fisting as well as any other kind of anal penetration requires arousal and relaxation. Do whatever you want: stimulate your partner with hands, fingers, lips and tongue or use sex toys. Start insertion only after you make sure your partner is aroused enough!
- Put on latex gloves. Thus you will provide better hygiene and will prevent infections if you have sores on hands
- Lubricant. Use much, very much lubricant. Apply it to fingers, to the entire hand up to the elbow. Keep in mind that oil-based lubricants damage latex! Use an water-based lubricant, or wear gloves that are made of non-latex material if you use oil-based lubricant. Consider using a special lubricant with desensitizing agents. This will help to relieve pain and to make fisting much more pleasant.
- One finger first. Start with one finger, than add one more finger. Step by step insert all the 5 fingers. Do not hurry. Be attentive to your partner's response. Once you have inserted all the 5 fingers stop and let your partner get used to this feeling. Then you can begin more intensive stimulation.
- Stimulation. What can you do now? After you have inserted the 5 fingers you can bend them to make a fist, but do this very slowly and tenderly! You can rotate the fist or move the fist back and forth. Your fantasy will suggest you what to do! The main thing is to be very slow, very tender and very careful.
- Removal. Remove the hand from the anus very slowly.
Keep in mind that fisting might be a painful or even a dangerous practice if performed improperly. Cut the nails so that not to injure the partner, use enough amount of lubricant and be very slow and tender. Thus you will avoid injures and unpleasant sensations.
| Anal Beads | Jan 14, 2008 |
The pleasure you can have while playing with anal beads cannot be compared to any other kind of pleasure. This is especial enjoyment that is available only to those who know what anal beads are and how to play with this anal sex toy.
Never tried anal beads? Do not hurry to buy this sex toy. First of all find out what anal beads are and how to use this sex toy.
What are anal beads?
Anal beads are a type of sex toy designed for both men and women. This sex toy can be used for partner sex as well as for solo play. Being easy to use, anal beads are a good sex toy for beginners.
This sex toy looks like a short strand of beads connected together with a cord that is usually made of nylon. Anal beads have a ring or some other handle at the end for easy retrieval. Typically the beads are smooth plastic or silicone spheres. The beads can be soft to touch or quite firm so that to cover different tastes.
Anal beads are available in various sizes. Typically first timers prefer smaller and softer anal beads while experienced anal sex lovers opt for bigger and firmer anal beads as these provide more intensive stimulation.
Material
As you already know, typically anal beads are made of silicone or of plastic. As well there are anal beads made out of rubber, latex and even metal.
All these materials are good enough and your choice is a matter of preference. If you want a cheap, soft and flexible sex toy, than opt for rubber anal beads. Be ware that rubber is a porous material, so rubber anal beads should be sheathed with a condom for better hygiene. If you dislike the odor of rubber than do not buy rubber anal beads.
Those who wish to find an anal sex toy made of high quality and easy to clean material should opt for silicone anal beads
.Plastic anal beads will be a good choice for those who prefer firm and rigid anal sex toys. Plastic is easy to clean – this is one more advantage of this material.
Latex anal beads will be a good option for those who want to find a inexpensive and soft anal sex toy, but be aware that latex might cause allergy, so do not buy latex anal beads if you ever had allergy to latex condom, latex gloves or some sex toys made of this material.
Metal anal beads is a good choice for those who prefer firm and non-porous anal sex toys.
How to use anal beads?
Anal beads are quite easy to use but they do require some experience. May be you won't find playing with anal beads enjoyable when you do that for the first time, but after you realize what you like and what you dislike you will appreciate this sex toy.
Anal beads are designed to be inserted in the anus and then pulled out with different speeds depending on the user's preferences. Some people like slow retrieval while others prefer to pull the beads out very quickly. Experiment and you will find out what you prefer.
Some people enjoy the very process of insertion while others love the sensation when the beads are being pulled out. Many people say they experience especially strong enjoyment if the beads are being pulled out at the moment of orgasm.
Some people orgasm from anal stimulation only while others prefer simultaneous anal and genital stimulation. Dare experiment and find your own way to get pleasure.
Tips
Pay attention to smoothness when choosing anal beads, as smooth anal beads won't injure your rectum. Remove all the rough edges on the beads with an emery board before use.
Make sure the cord that connects the beads is strong enough. Put the beads in a condom before use, thus you will provide better hygiene. This tip is especially important for those who share their anal sex toys with partners. Those who don't want to use a condom with anal beads should opt for a sex toy made of non-porous material that is easier to clean.
Clean the beads before and after each use with mild soap and warm water or with a special cleaner.
| The 9 Rules of Anal Sex | Dec 05, 2007 |
Follow these rules and enjoy safe, absolutely painless and very pleasurable anal sex!
- First anal sex with an experienced partner. Never tried anal sex? Want to try it for the first time? Find a partner who has some anal experience. Also it would be better if your first anal partner has a long and a thin penis as such a penis is more likely to be inserted easily and painlessly. But keep in mind that this is not the main criteria for the first partner for anal sex. First of all he should be a person whom you love and whom you trust.
- Use condoms. As long as sexually transmitted diseases exist, do use condoms if you want to avoid troubles. Keep in mind that the condom is effective only provided it is used correctly. Check the expire day – an expired condom is likely to fail you.
- Use plenty of water-based lubricant. Since anus does not have natural lubrication you should use a sex lubricant in order to provide better glide and to relieve discomfort. Use only water-based lubricants as these do not damage latex, so they are compatible with latex condoms and sex toys.
- Relaxation and arousal. Penetration will be painless only provided you are relaxed and turned on. The way you get relaxed and aroused depends only on you. Perhaps the best one is to have usual foreplay that involves stimulation of erogenous zones. Start penetration only after you make sure that you both are aroused enough.
If you feel that the inserted penis causes pain, do not contract the anal entry. Relax and try to push the penis out from you. Simultaneously move further but do that very slowly! - Comfortable position. Find a position in which the both of you will feel comfortable.
- No hurry. Don't insert the whole penis at once – even if you want to very much. Thus you will provoke only pain!Be patient: insert one finger, then add the second finger, and only then try to insert the penis: slowly and gradually, millimeter after millimeter. Your partner will let you know when you can continue going further.
- Vary the pressure. Some men like maximum pressure: in this case you should squeeze the anus. Others prefer minimal pressure. In this case you should relax and let the partner enter very deeply. There are men who find it very enjoyable if you contract the anus like you are trying to push the penis out. If you want to know what your partner likes, try all the three variants.
- No instructions! Don't say directly what you want. Even such simple signals as "faster-slower" should be said in the language of body. Nothing destroys sexual pleasure more than direct and nervous instruction. Moan, groan, move your body, but do not pronounce whole sentences! Let your brain be silent and let your body speak. Vulgar chatting is likely to spoil your pleasure. Do avoid it.
- Active partner first to cum. It would be better if the giving partner achieves orgasm first. first. If the receiving partner is the first to cum, than the following thrusts might seem painful to him/ her. After the giving partner cums, he should not stop stimulation. Instead he should stimulate erogenous zones (penis or clitoris) of the receiving partner until he/ she achieves orgasm. What to do if the receiving partner wants to cum through anal sex? The penis is weak, but you have anal sex toys that can provide incredible pleasures to your partner!
| Expand Your Sex Boundaries. Pegging | Oct 01, 2007 |
Does your partner enjoy anal play? Do you want to try something brand-new and untested? If your answer is “yes”, your partner and you are likely to enjoy pegging. So what is pegging?
Terms
Pegging is a term that describes a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates her partner's anus with a strap-on dildo.
A strap-on dildo is a phallus-shaped sex toy that is worn by one partner to penetrate another anally, vaginally or orally. Such a dildo has a flared base that secures the sex toy in the harness.
There is a great variety of strap-on dildos: traditional, butt-plug, G-spot/prostate dildos as well as strap-on dildos for double penetration. These have two shafts, one to penetrate the receiving partner's anus and the other to be inserted in the vagina of the giving partner. Usually women prefer to use these dildos for pegging.
Pleasures
- The man is likely to enjoy stimulation of the anus, rectum and especially the prostate
- The woman will get direct stimulation from the base of the dildo or from vaginal or anal plug if a double-penetration dildo is used.
- A woman can use a vibrator between the dildo and the clitoris, thus she will get clitoral stimulation while performing pegging.
- Some people find psychological pleasure in pegging. Pegging allows the partners to exchange the roles and to fulfill their most daring desires.
- Pegging greatly enhances BDSM play, as here the woman “fucks” the man thus demonstrating her power
- Through pegging both a man and a woman can fulfill their bisexual fantasies
Some people do want to try pegging, but at the same time shame and some prejudices prevent them from trying this exciting sexual practice. What are these?
Common myths about pegging
A man who enjoys anal sex in general, and pegging in particular is a gay.
This is not true. Some gays enjoy passive role in anal sex, while others prefer being the giving partner. Gays do not only practice anal sex. They kiss, embrace, practice mutual masturbation and oral sex. They do the same as heterosexual men. Sexual orientation, no matter whether it is traditional or homosexual has nothing to do with ways to get sexual pleasure a person prefers.
Very many absolutely heterosexual men enjoy massage of the anal entry and stimulation of the prostate with fingers and strap-on. The fact that a man gets pleasure from pegging does not mean he is a latent gay. He simply has very sensitive erogenous zones in the anus.
A woman who practices pegging wants to be a man deep in her mind
This is absurd. Willingness to be a man has nothing to do with strap-on and pegging, as those women who would like to change their sex do not might like and might not like pegging or using strap-on. Women like pegging as a way to get new sensations and emotions, they like it because through pegging they give an enormous pleasure to their partner. Also women often view strap-on as a piece of erotic lingerie that helps them look and feel sexier.
Do not be ashamed of your desires. Fulfill your fantasies and expand your sexual boundaries.
| Double pleasure with sex toys | Aug 08, 2007 |
Backdoor sex can be even more enjoyable when you double your partner's pleasure. There are different ways to ensure your woman's pleasure by experimenting with multiple penetration techniques. Besides, if your partner is reluctant to try anal sex it can be a god way to start liking it.
Double penetration is a way to enjoy sex one at a time with vaginal and/or oral sex. Many men and women claim double penetration sex to be highly arousing experience. Women often find the sensation of total fullness intense and can have more powerful orgasms from double penetration.
If you are in a monogamous relationship and the thought of double penetration was your secret desire long ago, you can experiment with sex toys. There are several ways to get the most from sex toys use.
1. Dual action vibrators and dildos
Nowadays there are a lot of sophisticated sex toys that have double penetration option if you want to experience doubled pleasure on your own or wit h your partner. There are different styles of this kind of sex toys.
Double dongs
These are usually flexible dildos connected at the base, usually used by lesbian partners but also very welcome for solo encounters. The two ended dong is usually more fit for vaginal-vaginal play but if you are an experienced lover you may try this sex toy to have the utmost feeling of fullness.
There are also sex toys that have one thinner end for anal penetration and thicker one for vaginal sex. This type of dildo is well designed to make sure you enjoy double penetration more comfortably.
Dual action vibrators
As well as double dongs, dual action vibrators have two shafts that can penetrate your anus and vagina simultaneously. The anal shaft can also have a textured surface and be thinner than vaginal one. Together with vibrating option this can be a real delight to try.
2. Vibrator or anal toy with your partner
Another way to enjoy anal penetration if you want a couple play is to make your partner penetrate you vaginally while using anal toy or otherwise. For better convenience your woman can use strap-on sex toy so that to free your hands. These are panties-style vibrators that can be worn as regular underwear but have an attachment for clitoral or and vaginal stimulation.
If you decide to have your vagina penetrated by your partner and your anus stimulated by anal toy, you can use such sex toys as butt plugs that are designed to fully fit your anus creating the filing of fullness. Butt plugs have a flared based that prevent them from getting lost in the rectum thats why your partner can insert butt plug during double penetration play and you will excite her penetrating vaginally.
There are also a wide range of vibrating anal toys -they create a pleasant sensation delivering you dozens of pampering pulsations and vibrations. They can go in a shape of anal beads or butt plugs and also have thinner or thicker shaft to fit your tastes.
| Some more myths and the truth about anal sex | Apr 26, 2007 |
Almost all men dream of anal sex whereas many women claim that they will never try this “awful”, “dirty” and “painful” activity. There are plenty of myths about this kind of sex: someone speaks about “incredible enjoyment” whereas others associate anal sex only with pain and fear. Who is right? Where is the truth?
Myth 1. Only men like anal sex
The truth. According to the statistics, anal sex is regularly practiced by every fifth American couple, and a half of couples enjoy it from time to time. Will women do anything that does not give them even the slightest pleasure? Of course, they won't.
The fact that many women enjoy anal sex has a scientific explanation. First of all, anal sex implies stimulation of anus that has a great deal of sensitive nerve endings. Secondly, anal intercourse provides stimulation of the G-spot through the wall that separates the anus and the vagina. Thirdly, the very thought that you together with your partner are doing something “sinful” and “forbidden” is very arousing.
Many women even say that anal sex gives them even more pleasure than vaginal. According to sexologists, anal sex can be enjoyable for one in three women. Your chance to find anal sex exciting is quite high! At least it is worth trying.
Myth 2.Any woman will like anal sex if she gets rid of fears
The truth. Many women do not find anal sex enjoyable, even the most open-minded ones. What is more, some women are even contraindicated to practice this kind of sex. This is not because of fears. Any person who has or ever had such troubles as piles, anal fissures or polypus, should refuse any anal stimulation, no matter whether it is anal intercourse, or play with anal toys like butt plugs or anal stimulator. This will lead to nothing but pain and complications.
One more regularity was revealed by doctors: as a rule anal sex seems enjoyable to women with extra weight. Here again there are exceptions. So the fact that you are as skinny as Kate Moss does not mean that you will not enjoy anal sex!
Of course, the size of the partner's penis should be taken into account. Big manhood is a disadvantage for any anal sex lover, as the woman is sure to find anal intercourse painful in this case. Anal sex is just the case when a man with big penis can be jealous of a man who does not have so big treasure.
Myth 3. Anal sex cannot cause pregnancy
The truth. There are many ways to get satisfaction from sex without any risk of getting pregnant. For some reason many people think that anal sex belongs to the list of “safe” sex activities. This is not true. There are many victims of this popular myth. Anus is placed close to vaginal opening and sperm can easily get into the vagina. Of course, anal sex does not cause pregnancy as often as vaginal, but this should not make you think that it is absolutely safe. Do use condoms!
| FAQ on dangers of backdoor sex | Mar 13, 2007 |
- We frequently practice anal sex but my partner doesn't want anal sex because he fears that it can result in prolapse of the rectum. Can it be true? And what should we do in this case?
- Is anal sex the same as prostate gland massage for a man? Does it mean those who practice anal sex have less chances to suffer from prostate diseases?
- Can you distinguish a person who practice anal sex from the one who is not?
- Do we need special type of condoms for anal play?
- Does backdoor sex cures hemorrhoids?
- Can I come in contact with the "mess" out there?
- Is it necessary to use a condom for anal sex?
Prolapse of rectum is possible. Vigorous and regular anal intercourses leads to relaxation of sphincter muscle and this may become a reason for further development of incontinence of the feces. Of course, it depends on the frequency and intensity of anal contacts, and one's individual peculiarities, but the possibility still exists. Another danger of careless anal sex are tears inside anus. The use of lubricant and thoughtful approach may prevent such conditions.
Prostate massage differs from anal intercourse. A medical procedure that involves prostate stimulation for treatment has it's own peculiarities. A doctor is aware of minor details not to damage sensitive tissues. besides, prostate massage is not in always advisable which depends on what type of prostatitis a patient have. For example, prostate massage is not advisable. In some cases, anal sex may even be the cause for prostatitis because of non-physiological stimulation.
Regular backdoor contacts may lead to some changes to appearance of the anus- it takes a more funnel-like shape and loosing the tightness of sphincter muscles.
There are special condoms for anal sex- they are more stronger and thicker, but one can use common type of condoms for this purpose. The most important is to check the expiration date and manufacturer, the size of the condom. The indication of these features should be included. Use condoms of the reliable manufacturer like Lifestyle, Durex, Hot Rubber. Though most condoms are already lubricated, additional lubricant may be necessary for the play.
Don't think that lover's of rear entry do not have hemorrhoids. It's a condition when veins of the rectum become swollen that appears for different reasons including sedentary way of life,continence or pregnancy. In any case anal intercourse can become a problem for those suffering from internal or external hemorrhoids. It may lead to bleeding and pain, that's why it's better to go for treatment first and then think about anal contact.
Although anus and rectum are pathways for fecal matter, feces are not stored there all the time. You should take notice of your defecation reflex. If you ignore the defecation urges regularly this may later lead to problems and you will not know for sure the signs of "fullness" and "emptiness". If you still doubt- you can use enema to ensure everything is clean.
Many people think that if a girl cannot get pregnant, this makes anal sex relatively safe. While this is absolutely untrue, anal sex can be even more dangerous in terms of STD's. As any cavity is full of microorganisms and some of them like colon and they can get in the urethra causing serious troubles later. In other cases, when the anal tissue might get damaged, the risk of contracting such STD's like syphilis, genital herpes, HIV, gonorrhea, and Hepatitis B and C.
| Crazy ass incidents | Feb 08, 2007 |
Do you think that details of your intimate life should be kept out of people's eyes? Not until you get in really wacky situation. Don't be ashamed to reveal some of your dark backdoor secrets - in the end we all have a skeleton in the closet.
Rear entry has always been a matter of dubious interest. Hardly we could find so much about charms of butt activity if not for a bunch of trouble makers, who were in search of out-of-ordinary sensations.
Emergency room - a look from outside
Probably, if you could work at emergency room for just one day, you'd learn a lot about the possibilities of human body and the limits of one's imagination.
When you sit at night questioning yourself: "Oh my God, what do the doctors have to say when they find the cucumber out there?"- the doctor is calmly removing the next beer mug out of some inventive guy's rectum and thinks about the complexity of this world...
If you are still in doubt check out what doctors deal with:
It got stuck there by chance... I swear!!!
In most of the cases when the foreign object was found in the rectum it didn't get there by chance. Curiosity, lack of knowledge and search of sex experiments is the most common reasons for the things to go wrong. In spite of this fact, people are unwilling to admit the real motive of their "strange behavior". What a doctor is going to hear hundred times is: "I slipped and oops - there was a flashlight on the floor that just stuck in my butt. How come?"
Hard, hard, harder...
A really hard stuff was reported in medical practice. A young man arrived at hospital with a concrete mass in his butt. You may think that a fellow had some grand plans to mold his anus for next generation or he just lacked the feeling of fullness in his ass, but the real reason was quite trivial.
At the height of gay fun, his boyfriend just came up with the idea to introduce fluid concrete in his partner rectum but just forgot that when it gets hardened - all the fun disappears in no time.
Fortunately for the sufferer the stony cast was taken out... along with a ping-pong ball. A really wacky sport, guys...
The flame is burning inside me
The Star Wars would never compare with the incident that happened in Salt lake City hospital with two gays who went for some dramatic experiment.
During the hot session he tried to remove a gerbil (yeah don't be scared - people are quite inventive) that eventually found his way to his partner's rectum. He inserted a cardboard tube and the gerbil moved up along the rectum. Then a genius idea struck his mind: "why not light up my mate's butt" and lighted the match to draw their little friend out of the "dark tunnel". But then the patience of the testee was over. He let the intestinal gas out and bingo! - the flame ignited, hurting both guys.
The end of the story is sad: "the firer had second degree burn and had his nose attacked by gerbil" while the affected man had numerous burns to his anus.
A ring in my butt
If you got into trouble, just relax and laugh. That's how Mr. Mendoza took the news of his cell phone stuck in the bum.
As he was an attorney he was quite convincing to explain how did the phone got in a such inappropriate place. His dog had a habit to fool around the house and took the phone to the shower. The slippery floor did the rest of the job! The man successfully landed on his fours where the meeting of his phone and his anus occurred.
While the extraction of his cell phone took place for more than three hours, Mr. Mendoza was very optimistic and cracked jokes every time the incoming call disturbed the audience which made the process of removal quite enjoyable.
Intense anal stimulation
Fear of flying had never been so acute for those who visit aircraft rest rooms. Some overweight people experienced "unusual" sensations. While they were flushing still sitting on the seat they... their rectum actually got "swallowed" by the vacuum motions of the toilet.
Sticky ass
When you eventually absorb a chewing gum you suppose it to hopefully find it's way out. However, a case of agonizing excretion of this sticky stuff caused some serious trouble for the victim of the incident.
The poor thing had to spent long hours waiting for the chewing gum to come out. In fact it was not that simple because gluey fibers of this stuff were coming out as a web (not world wide, but still web). Although, things wouldn't be so bad if the guy could make bubbles with a gum in his rectum.
| Is anal sex enjoyable for a woman? | Jan 18, 2007 |
For centuries, anal sex remained a forbidden zone - no wonder interest in this sexual activity still remains quite topical. As far as a rear entry is associated with mixed feelings of embarrassment, dirty stuff and risks, some people will not readily accept anal sex as an enjoyable experience. And though your woman can claim there should be nothing forbidden between the partners in sexual relationships who share almost everything, kicking the backdoor in still remains the last thing she agrees to try in bed. But may be the reason of her rejection is unawareness of the benefits that hold butt-play.
I should remind- anus is a tight non-lubricated area where excrements come out. It seems as though Mother Nature has not included anal sex into a list of heavenly enjoyable sex practices. So what's the fuss is all about? The pleasant thing about anal sex is that anatomically anus is very close to vagina. Moreover, vagina's nerve endings are closer from that side where you set your mood to penetrate your lover. This experience can really increase the chances for it to be fancy, groovy and even satisfying. But only in case you do it skillfully. That means: you don't press for it (slowly and gently), you provide a smooth slide with lubricant, you ensure your woman's safety and take care of her feelings.
But even provided all the rules of "the right penetration" are adhered to, anal sex can still not end up as a pleasant experience. Why? As every woman's (and man's) body is an individual map of erogenous zones, anus may not be a sensitive area either. In this case, anal sex has no benefits at all. So if your woman rejects the idea - she may not really enjoy the process or may be quite indifferent to such sort of stimulation. The only way out in this case is to combine stimulation of other erogenous zone with anal penetration so that both of you can be satisfied.
| Female condoms for anal use | Jan 05, 2007 |
Women like men are also endowed with the possibility to use condoms during anal intercourse. Due to individuals' lack of experience and knowledge concerning this product people face design and usage difficulties.
Female condoms provide the same protection against HIV and are as effective as male extra-strong condoms commonly recommended for anal sex. They work as an effective barrier while having anal sex. Due to the polyurethane structure that is stronger then latex, the female condom assures maximum guarantee of protection and safety. It gives the receptive partner a secured way to protect himself/herself. Also it gives a full protection covering the outer area of the anus and the base of the penis during anal sex.
While using the female condom, there are certain significant steps that have to be taken before, during and after anal sex.
If you are ready to start the intercourse, insert the condom within the rectum making sure the outside ring is outside the anus. You will notice that about one inch of the open end will stay outside. It seems to look unusual but the very part is going to protect you and your partner during sex. In order to assure a better comfort you can use more lubricant either inside or outside the condom.
While making sex you can observe that the condom moves around. There are situations when the condom could slip up and down within the anal cavity riding the penis. Be careful in the situation when the outer ring of the condom is pushed into the anus. Stop the act if you notice that the penis starts to enter underneath or beside the sheath. Reinsert it within the covered anus.
If you decide to stop the anal intercourse take out the condom, squeeze and twist the outer ring to keep any fluid inside the pouch. You should pull gently the fluids out and throw it away.
Be sure of not reusing the condom. Change the condom each time you want to start a new intercourse. Female condoms are not designed for fisting or activities involving urine. Remember! While putting the condom that has been in the anus into the vagina it is risky and is not advisable. Vaginal sex following the anal one requires the usage of a new condom.
The condom is suitable, convenient, and handy. It assures high protection and safe sex. Now women are given the possibility to attain pleasure during anal sex without thinking of infections or other STDs.
| What is butt plug | Dec 29, 2006 |
Both women and men have the possibility to explore anal sex, either through masturbation or sex with his/her partner. The rectum is provided with sensible nerve endings and strong muscles around it that feel greatly when touched. Men's prostate glands are reached through rectum and are directly stimulated through anal sex. Women's G-spots are indirectly stimulated while anal intercourse. Most individuals are eagerly searching for different ways of penetrating their rectum.
Butt plug is a kind of anal toy aimed to be introduced within the anus for sexual pleasure. To some extent it is similar to a dildo excepting its size and shape. It is typically diamond-shaped with a thin neck and a flared base. The inserted in rectum objects can travel up into the anus and bowel. For preventing them from slipping into the rectum each butt plug has the very flared end. Also it is provided with a bulge in the middle. It helps the butt plug stay in place, assuring your hands to freely pursue other pleasures. Butt plug tends to be shorter than dildo and should be very smooth in order to avoid rectum's damaging.
In order to insert or remove the butt plug into/from the anus you need a large amount of sexual lubricant and a delicate approach regarding this process. It is undoubtedly required to put a condom on the butt plug for your hygiene, assuring a better safety and an easy disposal of any feces. Do not share condoms with other individuals. STDs could be easily transmitted through bodily fluids from one partner to another. Remove the condom before penetrating other places.
Butt plugs can be also used during vaginal, oral and urethral penetrations. They may be transferred and rotated to and from the rectum, mouth, vagina, and urethra. Be sure the vagina is covered in a plastic wrap whereas the butt plug into a condom. In this way you will decrease the risk of causing infections, sickness and other illnesses. Nevertheless a lot of individuals are not precocious and neglect these simple, but significant suggestions.
Butt plugs come in a wide range of colors, textures, sizes, shapes. They are made of different materials like neoprene, wood, metal, stone, silicone, etc. Usually Latex is used for their manufacturing. Some butt plugs are designed to look like phalluses; some of them are ribbed or even wavy. Also you can see vibrating butt plugs and butt plugs that can expand and inflate. Certain of them are made especially for men (prostate's stimulation). Others are able to "ejaculate" by squirting water or other viscous fluids into the anus. Their huge variety helps you choosing the one you really like and need.
| Anal Sex and STDs | Dec 15, 2006 |
The individuals in general prefer practicing anal sex. But they are not adequately informed and aware of the disadvantages and diseases anal sex could bring. They think anal sex is safer than the vaginal one. That is why people do not care about protection against sexually transmitted diseases including the terrible HIV. In reality this kind of sex is more dangerous than vaginal or oral sex. It is proved that STDs are transmitted through anal intercourse.
This happens because of the anus and rectum thin tissues that can be easily damaged. So, viruses and bacteria triumphantly make headway to man's body. Also anal sex is considered to be dangerous due to the high risk of contact with blood. The mucous tissues of bowels are able to absorb everything that gets from outside. So, bowels can be a real source of blood intoxication with any virus.
It is undoubtedly required to protect yourself and your partner from different diseases and injuries during anal intercourse. HIV and other STD's are eagerly waiting to settle down to your comfortable body. Remember! Any insignificant injures or sores can occur as the result of any anal stimulation. The risk of intoxication is high no matter whether this stimulation is provided with finger, hand or an anal toy. That is why you need and must use a condom- the easiest and the most perfect way to assure a safer anal sex. Your carelessness regarding ways of anal protection could bear unpleasant moments in your life and even death.
Some MUST DO for any anal intercourse
- Use condoms
If you plan to have anal sex think first of all of condoms! This is the strictest rule that can never be ignored. These beneficial products are handily, small and easy to carry. Use them for each anal intercourse. The most suitable for anal sex condoms are the heavy-duty ones, but simple condoms are good as well. So, do not hesitate to fill your pocket with condoms. If you prefer anal sex they are inevitable! - Put condom on properly
Make sure you or your partner is acquainted with the way of putting on condom correctly the. Remember: the condom is effective only if it is put on correctly. - Use lubricant based on water
It is known that unlike vagina anus has no natural lubrication. That is why in order to avoid pain and injuries you need an anal lube. Use the water- based lubricant! It doesn't damage the texture of condoms like oil based lubricants do. Also it is necessary to mention that oil-based lubricant unfortunately damages the material certain anal sex toys are made of. In this case water-based lubricant is the most suitable choice! - Use more lubricant!
Anal lubricant aims to minimize the risk of condom breakage. More lubrication- maximum effects and minimum risks. Be generous for better results! - Prepare your anus for its first contact
Make sure you are ready for anal penetration! This implies a variety of actions to do. You can insert your fingers into the anus or ask your partner to do it. Also you can use several anal toys for its easiest penetration with penis. - Use anal toys properly
Be aware of some rules you must take into consideration. These rules deal especially with your own hygiene you must take care of. - Take care of your anal toys properly!
As we've wrote above rectum is very sensible and can absorb viruses and bacteria faster. Pay attention to your sex toys. They must be entirely clean before usage. If you need more information on how to clean your anal toys see our Sex Toys Guide. - Do not use the same toy for both anal and vaginal penetration
Anal sex toys are not aimed for vaginal usage. If you took the sex toy from your anus off don't introduce it immediately into your vagina. The risk of your vagina's infection is guaranteed. For anal stimulation use such toys as anal probes, butt plugs, anal vibrators, etc. - The end means the end
You must stop the intercourse if the receiving partner asks you to do this.
These rules are worthy to be accomplished by you and your partner. Your health relies only on you! Be responsible and try to overcome all difficulties and unpleasant instants while having anal sex. You might think that the rules mentioned above are too bored and meticulous. Maybe be they are. But 2 minutes spent for your safety can protect your future sexual life from pain and psychological traumas.
| How to prepare for anal sex | Dec 06, 2006 |
Anal sex is still one of the most widely spread intercourse among people. Although it is considered to be a little bit outlandish and too perverted it captivates the individuals' minds and prevails over their sexual ideas and fantasies.
It is not such a difficult and meticulous process to get ready for anal intercourse. This operation requires certain important steps that need to be taken every time you want to proceed in action.
First of all you must feel ready and truly convinced you really want to do it. Make yourself comfortable and excited. No tension and no more doubts! Be patient and take care of your partner, avoiding him/ her suffering from misunderstandings and incorrect actions.
If you feel your rectum is full you need to give yourself an enema to prevent spreading of the infections. Then, a prior shower comes. It deals with the hygiene of you and your partner. It is a MUST DO operation. Be cleanly, tidy and try to avoid any mess for your pleasure and sexuality.
Use condoms and dental dams for a better protection and anal penetration. Lubricated latex condoms are the most suitable for this purpose. Condom (if you use sex toys), latex glove (for manual stimulation) or a dental dam (for oral stimulation) is an absolutely necessary set of things for a safe anal pleasure.
Prepare psychologically your partner using your sensuality and your favorite sexual games. Certain aphrodisiacs, oils, crèmes even alcoholic beverages are welcomed for a better relaxation and courage.
Make the anus ready for penetration by massaging it and getting into your fingers. Don't forget to use the lubricant, if it is needed. Additional lubrication is required anyway, because anus doesn't produce a natural one. It can create difficulties and pain for the "receiving" partner. Also you can use a toy, an anal vibrator or other funny tool for relaxing the anus muscles.
You can add a note of desire and pleasure by stimulating the anus with your tongue (annilingus - the oral-anal contact). It is usually used when the partners are open-minded, confident and are willing to experience together new sensations.
Don't be ashamed of new attempts! Try everything that is able to enhance your pleasure and satisfaction. Be yourself and savor your sexual life in peace and love.
| How to persuade your partner for anal sex | Nov 20, 2006 |
Anal sex is not a readily accepted sex practice even within the most trustful and long-term intimate relationships. There are a lot of people who won't even listen to reason to try this kind of forbidden play, and this choice should be respected anyway.
But there are also those who are hesitant to try and it leaves some anal sex lovers a hope to proselyte.
And that means... there is something you can do to persuade your better half to engage in the rear entry intercourse.
- Raise the topic as though eventually.
Watching an adult movie or reading an article can bring the discussion around the attitude towards anal sex. It is important to make sure he or she won't be scared at the idea. You may ensure your partner that you will take care of safety and won't do anything to deter him or her from having sexual pleasure next time. - Make anal penetration a pleasant part of the intercourse.
Don't be pushy to start anal practice right at the beginning. Remember that candy thing should go first. Intimate massage or prolonged foreplay can become a staring point to proceed to a backdoor activity.
Does he or she enjoy oral sex or falls for role-playing? Indulge her deepest urges in the first place and you will be half-way towards your goal in persuading your partner to try anal sex. - Engage the nearby sensitive areas.
Keep in mind that the genital area is located close to anus, which means that one step towards anal pleasure lies through stimulation of pelvic zone. For women it will be outer labia, clitoris, the vaginal opening, and inner thighs and for men these are- scrotum, perineum and inner thighs. Caressing those sensitive zones with your fingers and mouth can greatly benefit to enjoyable anal intercourse. While your partner gets higher you can try to whisper in his ears your proposal and watch over the reaction. - Take things step by step
First of all, keep a water-based lubricant and condom or cot handy. That will save you the trouble of worrying about safety and hygiene. Introduce a finger pre-lubricated covered with cot into his or her anus and follow your partner's response. If it feels good, he or she will show you signs of pleasure: increased breathing, sighing and moving thighs closer to you - you are on the right way, if your partner turns away it's better to stop and leave it over until the next time. - Move on to something spicier
Once you see your partner is enjoying the process you may introduce something for a more intense stimulation. Try anal sex toys: anal probes, butt plugs, anal beads or anal vibrators. All of them were designed to make anal intercourse easier and more comfortable, that’s why using them before you actually penetrate your partner with penis.
When you actually get to the point of having pleasant anal sex, it becomes a good base to experiment with other sex activities. But don't forget that if your partner didn’t like the play, there is always a second chance to enjoy anal sex.
| Anal sex positions | Oct 31, 2006 |
Missionary position
Missionary position which is often the common during vaginal penetration is also considered quite popular for anal sex. An insertive partner is on top while the receiving partner lies on his back with his legs apart.
Advantages
This is very comfortable for first-timers, as in the missionary position the receiver gets maximum relaxation for anus.
Disadvantages
It could be rather tiresome for an inserter as he needs to support his body on his arms.
How to perform
In order to make anal penetration much easier, additional prop may be necessary. You may use a pillow or a towel to raise the buttocks to the level when it becomes comfortable enough for entry. It is also important that the more a bottom exposes his or her legs, the more relaxed anus will be.
Doggy style position
Doggy style or rear entry position may be the first to come into your mind when you consider anal pleasure for the first time. A receiver kneels forward while an inserter penetrates from behind.
Advantages
Doggy style is mainly a benefit for an inserter as in this position he is derives utmost comfort. Besides it's much easier from this position to control thrusting.
Disadvantages
Doggy style is not considered the best for neophytes as surprisingly it doesn't allow relaxing anus properly.
How to perform
In order to make penetration more comfortable a top person should angle his penis or sex toy right at the level with the anus. Insertion is better performed when things are taken step by step. A more improved way to perfect this position is to try rear entry with bottom partner standing. It is recommended for a receiver to keep his legs closer – this allows relaxing anus better.
Reverse missionary position
In this position receiving partner is on top while an inserter is lying down.
Advantages
This position is first of all advantageous for a partner who is on top position as it gives better control over thrusting- he may actually choose what feels more comfortable.
Disadvantages
In a position where you have a leading part, the most comfort will be given to a top partner unless he is restrained.
How to perform
First thing to keep in mind is to relax and loosen anus for the receiver. It would be more comfortable for the receiver to lean forward for this purpose. As for an inserter, immovability is the best policy to make penetration smoother.
Spooning position
In a spooning position a top partner penetrates the bottom one from behind. Receiver's legs are apart to make entry easier.
Advantages
With both partners lying on their back spooning position can be the most comfortable to make anal sex enjoyable. You may also say that spooning position contributes to those who have bigger penis.
Disadvantages
Though you may call it rather enjoyable and relaxing for both partners, some find it a bit troublesome for the top.
How to perform
For easier penetration a receiving partner should feel relaxed enough to smooth the sensations while the inserter needs to find the better angle.
| Lubricants for anal play | Oct 19, 2006 |
One of the most important points we should start any anal intercourse is picking up the right lubricant. Since anus doesn't produce its own lubrication, in order to smooth all the sensations and make penetration easier.
Today you may choose from plenty of lube types available at sex market today.
Water-based lubricants
Basically, water-based lubes are fit or all sexual practices as they are absolutely friendly to your sex toys, condoms, skin and all in all are not so whimsical in care and use. But there are also water-based lubes designed for more refined pleasure games, like flavored ones, which are not recommended for anal play anyway. As most can contain sugar, there is a small chance it can provoke yeast infection. But if talking about foreplay, flavored water-based lube can well go as a great enhancer if used for external purposes.
Silicone-based lubricants
Silicone-based lubricants appeared not so long ago. The main advantage of this type of lubricant is that you can use it practically for any kind of anal or other sex plays, as its advanced features contribute to better application. Silicone lube won't damage latex so you may quite easily use it while watching over safety with the condom use. Besides silicone lube will absorb much slower than water-based one. But as long as you decide to use a silicone sex toy, silicone lube should be avoided as both become incompatible.
Oil- and petroleum-based lubricants
Oil- and petroleum-based lubricants are rarely picked as a number one choice for erotic play. This is due to some drawbacks oil and petroleum based lubes have. First no latex condoms and a lot of sex toys materials will match well with this lubricants. Women also avoid using lubricants containing oils because of the danger it holds for genitals and other sensitive areas of the body. As oils are much harder to clean up, there is a danger of the oil layer to stay, which becomes a favorable medium for bacteria and infections to spread.
Desensitizing lubricants
That is actually a type of lubricant which is often recommended particularly for anal sex. Desensitizing lubes have thicker consistence and desensitizing agent added to this lubricant can prolong erotic play.
| Men's pleasure spot | Oct 17, 2006 |
While anal penetration is the most popular way to enjoy this sexual practice, a man who has a sex organ for inserting and a woman who is considered to be a passive side is not the only variant to get the most from anal intercourse.
Many people are surprised to know that anal intercourse can be extremely pleasurable for men. For those who are still unaware, men have a very sensitive spot – prostate gland, which is stimulated during anal intercourse. And here are vast opportunities for woman to find different ways to please her partner.
Prostate is located around 1,6 inches inside the anal canal, when inserting a finger inside the anus you can feel a small lump about the size of a nut. This very important organ in male reproductive system is as well a very intricate analogue of female G-spot.
Safety
First thing to consider is safety. It is highly recommended for your partner to empty the bladder so that not to provoke further urination during stimulation. Remember that tissue inside the anus is quite sensitive that's why you should make sure to prevent occasional injure caused by your finger nails or rough actions. Condom (if you use sex toys), latex glove (for manual stimulation) or a dental dam (for oral stimulation) is an absolutely necessary set of things for a safe anal pleasure.
Make things step by step
There is no need to say that you shouldn't suddenly insert your finger or sex toy inside anus of your partner. Hot bath, gentle and sensuous massage and relaxing music can do well, slowly leading to your ultimate aim.
Prostate stimulation
You may stimulate prostate both ways: externally and internally. Try to sense the spot from the outside, rubbing against the perineum. Once your partner got used to the feeling you may slowly insert your fingers inside the anus. Use water-based lubricants for this purpose – this will smooth the sensations and make penetration much easier. Be gentle and use finger pad to stroke this sensitive area. You may run your fingers along the prostate gland and try various motions and intensity to find what stimulation feels better to your partner.
| Tom Cruise's butt plug | Oct 13, 2006 |
News seems to spread quite fast especially bad ones. We have to give a credit to sex toys manufacturers for their inventiveness and variety of fun devices to pamper our body. One of the popular manufacturers in sex toys industry Holesome Fun Incorporated released a new line of butt plugs for men and women. A 3-inch silicone anal toy replicates Tome Cruise's face and torso and has quite an implicit name "Mission Insertable" butt plug.
For those who are not familiar with butt plugs I dare explain, a butt plug is an anal toy which is used for sexual amusement. You don't need to study any special techniques to get maximum pleasure from a butt plug. Just insert it into the anus to be worn during
sexual intercourse or simply in any regular situation while you are at your work place, walking with your pet or reading a book.
It is claimed that Tom Cruise brought a suit million against the company and accused Holesome Fun Incorporated of the illegal use of his image for such a "dirty tricks". Tom Cruises resentment is quite understood as no one is eager to be a decoration of the toy that is inserted in such a dark place. But taking into account Holesome Fun's sales can be just enormous there are few chances everyone who bought Mission Insertable butt plug is going to return such a kinky toy.
CEO of the company Trey Guccione refused to stop the distribution of fancy butt plugs as he said that instead of sounding off Tom could well make use of the butt plug and achieve utmost anal pleasure. At least there are no people who rebel against using Mission Insertable plugs, which is pretty clear! Comfortable and easy in use – can you ask for more?
