Is anal sex enjoyable for a woman?

Jan 18, 2007

For centuries, anal sex remained a forbidden zone - no wonder interest in this sexual activity still remains quite topical. As far as a rear entry is associated with mixed feelings of embarrassment, dirty stuff and risks, some people will not readily accept anal sex as an enjoyable experience. And though your woman can claim there should be nothing forbidden between the partners in sexual relationships who share almost everything, kicking the backdoor in still remains the last thing she agrees to try in bed. But may be the reason of her rejection is unawareness of the benefits that hold butt-play.
I should remind- anus is a tight non-lubricated area where excrements come out. It seems as though Mother Nature has not included anal sex into a list of heavenly enjoyable sex practices. So what's the fuss is all about? The pleasant thing about anal sex is that anatomically anus is very close to vagina. Moreover, vagina's nerve endings are closer from that side where you set your mood to penetrate your lover. This experience can really increase the chances for it to be fancy, groovy and even satisfying. But only in case you do it skillfully. That means: you don't press for it (slowly and gently), you provide a smooth slide with lubricant, you ensure your woman's safety and take care of her feelings.

But even provided all the rules of "the right penetration" are adhered to, anal sex can still not end up as a pleasant experience. Why? As every woman's (and man's) body is an individual map of erogenous zones, anus may not be a sensitive area either. In this case, anal sex has no benefits at all. So if your woman rejects the idea - she may not really enjoy the process or may be quite indifferent to such sort of stimulation. The only way out in this case is to combine stimulation of other erogenous zone with anal penetration so that both of you can be satisfied.