The 9 Rules of Anal Sex | Dec 05, 2007 |
Follow these rules and enjoy safe, absolutely painless and very pleasurable anal sex!
- First anal sex with an experienced partner. Never tried anal sex? Want to try it for the first time? Find a partner who has some anal experience. Also it would be better if your first anal partner has a long and a thin penis as such a penis is more likely to be inserted easily and painlessly. But keep in mind that this is not the main criteria for the first partner for anal sex. First of all he should be a person whom you love and whom you trust.
- Use condoms. As long as sexually transmitted diseases exist, do use condoms if you want to avoid troubles. Keep in mind that the condom is effective only provided it is used correctly. Check the expire day – an expired condom is likely to fail you.
- Use plenty of water-based lubricant. Since anus does not have natural lubrication you should use a sex lubricant in order to provide better glide and to relieve discomfort. Use only water-based lubricants as these do not damage latex, so they are compatible with latex condoms and sex toys.
- Relaxation and arousal. Penetration will be painless only provided you are relaxed and turned on. The way you get relaxed and aroused depends only on you. Perhaps the best one is to have usual foreplay that involves stimulation of erogenous zones. Start penetration only after you make sure that you both are aroused enough.
If you feel that the inserted penis causes pain, do not contract the anal entry. Relax and try to push the penis out from you. Simultaneously move further but do that very slowly! - Comfortable position. Find a position in which the both of you will feel comfortable.
- No hurry. Don't insert the whole penis at once – even if you want to very much. Thus you will provoke only pain!Be patient: insert one finger, then add the second finger, and only then try to insert the penis: slowly and gradually, millimeter after millimeter. Your partner will let you know when you can continue going further.
- Vary the pressure. Some men like maximum pressure: in this case you should squeeze the anus. Others prefer minimal pressure. In this case you should relax and let the partner enter very deeply. There are men who find it very enjoyable if you contract the anus like you are trying to push the penis out. If you want to know what your partner likes, try all the three variants.
- No instructions! Don't say directly what you want. Even such simple signals as "faster-slower" should be said in the language of body. Nothing destroys sexual pleasure more than direct and nervous instruction. Moan, groan, move your body, but do not pronounce whole sentences! Let your brain be silent and let your body speak. Vulgar chatting is likely to spoil your pleasure. Do avoid it.
- Active partner first to cum. It would be better if the giving partner achieves orgasm first. first. If the receiving partner is the first to cum, than the following thrusts might seem painful to him/ her. After the giving partner cums, he should not stop stimulation. Instead he should stimulate erogenous zones (penis or clitoris) of the receiving partner until he/ she achieves orgasm. What to do if the receiving partner wants to cum through anal sex? The penis is weak, but you have anal sex toys that can provide incredible pleasures to your partner!
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