While anal penetration is the most popular way to enjoy this sexual practice, a man who has a sex organ for inserting and a woman who is considered to be a passive side is not the only variant to get the most from anal intercourse. Many people are surprised to know that anal intercourse can be extremely pleasurable for men. For those who are still unaware, men have a very sensitive spot – prostate gland, which is stimulated during anal intercourse. And here are vast opportunities for woman to find different ways to please her partner. Prostate is located around 1,6 inches inside the anal canal, when inserting a finger inside the anus you can feel a small lump about the size of a nut. This very important organ in male reproductive system is as well a very intricate analogue of female G-spot. Safety First thing to consider is safety. It is highly recommended for your partner to empty the bladder so that not to provoke further urination during stimulation. Remember that tissue inside the anus is quite sensitive that's why you should make sure to prevent occasional injure caused by your finger nails or rough actions. Condom (if you use sex toys), latex glove (for manual stimulation) or a dental dam (for oral stimulation) is an absolutely necessary set of things for a safe anal pleasure. Make things step by step There is no need to say that you shouldn't suddenly insert your finger or sex toy inside anus of your partner. Hot bath, gentle and sensuous massage and relaxing music can do well, slowly leading to your ultimate aim. Prostate stimulation You may stimulate prostate both ways: externally and internally. Try to sense the spot from the outside, rubbing against the perineum. Once your partner got used to the feeling you may slowly insert your fingers inside the anus. Use water-based lubricants for this purpose – this will smooth the sensations and make penetration much easier. Be gentle and use finger pad to stroke this sensitive area. You may run your fingers along the prostate gland and try various motions and intensity to find what stimulation feels better to your partner.

News seems to spread quite fast especially bad ones. We have to give a credit to sex toys manufacturers for their inventiveness and variety of fun devices to pamper our body. One of the popular manufacturers in sex toys industry Holesome Fun Incorporated released a new line of butt plugs for men and women. A 3-inch silicone anal toy replicates Tome Cruise's face and torso and has quite an implicit name "Mission Insertable" butt plug. For those who are not familiar with butt plugs I dare explain, a butt plug is an anal toy which is used for sexual amusement. You don't need to study any special techniques to get maximum pleasure from a butt plug. Just insert it into the anus to be worn during sexual intercourse or simply in any regular situation while you are at your work place, walking with your pet or reading a book. It is claimed that Tom Cruise brought a suit million against the company and accused Holesome Fun Incorporated of the illegal use of his image for such a "dirty tricks". Tom Cruises resentment is quite understood as no one is eager to be a decoration of the toy that is inserted in such a dark place. But taking into account Holesome Fun's sales can be just enormous there are few chances everyone who bought Mission Insertable butt plug is going to return such a kinky toy. CEO of the company Trey Guccione refused to stop the distribution of fancy butt plugs as he said that instead of sounding off Tom could well make use of the butt plug and achieve utmost anal pleasure. At least there are no people who rebel against using Mission Insertable plugs, which is pretty clear! Comfortable and easy in use – can you ask for more?

Anal sex was always approached with a great deal of prejudice and awkwardness due to the fact that anal area was considered to be a prohibited topic. So what keeps most of us from getting anal pleasure? Most probably you've heard one of the following statements referring to anal intercourse. Myth 1:Anal sex is dirty

This myth often comes from the fact that we all know where do all intestinal discharges are coming out. But first of all, you can follow your common sense and make it relatively clean by using enema for example or using a condom to prevent infections spreading- all this much alike for other sexual practices.

Myth 2: I'm not a gay to try anal sex

Gay partners include anal intercourse in their sex repertoire as well as oral sex and use of sex toys - just much the same as most heterosexual couples do. Will you believe that trying one of anal practices can somehow influence your sexual orientation? That sounds quite senseless taking into account that our sexual attraction towards one or another gender is basically inborn.

Myth 3: It hurts

A lot of us find anal sex not worth trying because of the fear to have a painful experience; this shouldn't be a reason to avoid anal sex. Although first experience can indeed be quite uncomfortable one, as any other practice all you need to keep to basic principles and safety rules. For a first-timer anal intercourse can become not only an unusual and confusing but also "unpleasant" which is often connected to either tension or incorrect actions.

Myth 4: I risk getting an STD

As any other sexual activity anal sex can hold the risk of getting STD, but that only means you should take general precautions to make it safe. Always use condoms during anal intercourse to protect you from unwanted consequences. One thing you should remember is that rectum is quite tight and there is always a possibility anal penetration can result in tears especially if you are a beginner. That's why it is strongly recommended to take safety measures for any sexual activity and anal intercourse in particular.